yesterday i call my brother to ask his opinion, advise or advice(aku selalu konpius with this word..so whatever) about my coming wedding..
ya i have got many complication bout my wedding. n i just keep up all the problem n just hope with doa' to get all smoothly..
ok get back to our conversation, i just call my brother to ask whatever to ask n he said that whatever happen he will support me. but just one thing he said to me.. heheh.. pasal aurat n tudung...
ya im just shock.. ya i know what d wrong thing that i do.
the first thing that he ask bout.....
1) kenapa depan abg jib yam pakai tudung n belakang tak pakai tudung.. tukan mempersendakan hukum yang tuhan dah buat.. depan abgjib pakai tapi belakang bukak.. aper tuh...
then i just thinking back.. ya i'm honestly tak terniat for mempersendakan agama or whatsoever.. i just know that some of the people don't like me to free hair. n not only in front of my brother but also in front of certain orang tua.. n my intention just to respect the people thinking.. i'm just dont have any intention to mempersendakan.. n i doesnt think about that at all before this..
and after my brother say that i just shock n start to think about that..
2) yam tau tak yam punya penampilan menggambarkan orang sebelah (boyprenku) yam didik yam macam mana... orang tengok yam n suddenly akan tgk orang sebelah n sah2 orang sebelah akan kena kutuk sekali...
n again i dont ever think this also.. n again i hav to think about that... duh...apakah...
3) sebelum kahwin tunjuk la sikit perubahan...
ya.. inshallah i will try to change myself.. not because of my brother but for sake of my religion.. my brother just make me to think much more..
but.. ya still have a but.. the devil always instigate all human including me..
but i want to wear my beautiful wedding dress... just one time in my life..
i feel so sorry to myself......;(
5 comments:
sori kalau aku komen nie akan hurt ko, tapi, aku nasihat nie sebagai kawan, k..
kalau betul2 nak pakai tudung, biar la niat tue sbb ko sendiri nak berubah.. bukan apa, kalau ko niat nak ikut org ke, atau sbb nak kawin ke, atau sbb suami suruh ke, cuba fikir in the future.. kalau la org berubah, or keadaan berubah, takkan ko nak tukar blaik free hair kan?
baju lawa, x semestinya x bleh pakai ngan tudung.. asal kena dengan gayanya.. kita yang tentukan.. k..
sometimes, mmg it hurts bila kita fikir fasal agama nie.. but, believe it or not, segala sesuatu tue Allah suruh ada hikmah.. cumba kita nak discover ia atau x je..
apa2 pun, sebagai kawan, aku sudi menyokong ko.. k.. (^o,^)
honestly comment, better ko pakai tudung. ko tau what my stand, right? aku mmg xberapa gemar ko bukak tudung. ko pakai tudung lebih lawa dari bukak.
again, ikhlaskan hati nk tutup aurat. tutup aurat sng je.nk dptkan keikhlasan yg susah.
ikhlas, x ikhlas, tutup aurat hukum dia wajib. so, fikir la tanggungjawab kita as muslim, ye.
aku pun bengong gak bab tudung2 ni. tapi, bila ikhlas mmg tak ada setan dah boleh hasut.
;)
goodluck!
selamat pengantin baru :)
Murlak_s said...
tak rasa "hurt"pun..
anyway thanx..
pemerepek said...
ye ker aku pakai tudung lawa..:p
tau kasya ko memang siyes bab2 tudung.. thankx kasya..;)
yahh said...
mekacih atas sokongan..
heheh...
13may said...
weh aku lambat lagi setahun la baru kawin..
lek lu...
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